We are troubled by what happens in this world. There are times in each of our lives where not only can we not understand the will of God, but we absolutely disagree with it. There are times when good things happen to those not at all interested in God, and there are as many times when dedicated disciple experiences tragedy. Observing these situations, we cannot help but ask “Why?” Where is justice? Where is faithfulness? Where are the promises of God?
Our perception of who God really is affects every moment of our life with him, and the matter is no different in this instance. Many view God as simply an all-powerful deity who orders us to serve and will judge and punish us if we refuse. If that were so, being openly upset and angry with the will of God would be a punishable offense, to be avoided at all cost. However, the God of the Bible never represents himself this way. Is he a king to be honored and served? Yes. Does he have plans to judge and punish the wickedness in this world? Yes. However, is his character limited to these very two-dimensional attributes? Absolutely not. The God of the Bible is first and foremost creator and father. While a father might know full-well that his will and plan are beyond the understanding of a complaining child, he will patiently listen to the child, seeing the necessity in allowing the child to express his or her emotions. It is no different with God. While he is well aware that we are perpetually shortsighted and hyper-critical of things we do not understand, Father God desires a relationship with his children, and at the heart of any fruitful relationship is communication. Providing answers is not the sole purpose of communication; expressing emotion, even negative emotions like anger, is a vital part of communicating in a relationship.
While we must always understand the greater perspective of God, and be ready to not understand and avoid judgment or resentment towards him, we must not overlook the importance of sharing our complete heart with him, good and bad. The fact is, he already knows our displeasure in what he has allowed to happen. He simply wishes to hear us and be heard himself.